As the long-delayed engagement announcement between Kate Middleton and Prince William continues to make waves, what can all this fuss be doing to the two people at the heart of it?
Will they make the right decisions at the right time to secure their joint historic role as the future of the British Monarchy? The answer is not as straightforward as it seems.
Prince William
For William it’s business as usual. He experienced press fenzy in his youth when his mother, Princess Diana, was the main target of the media and particularly, the paparazzi.
He watched in disgust as aggressive freelancers shoved lenses into Diana’s face as she walked to her car. Sometimes, of course, she invited the attention. At others, she was less happy about it, particularly when on secret tristes with one of her many liaisons. When you unleash the big dogs, she discovered, sometimes they turn on you.
William was recently shown the full text of the Stevens’ report on Diana’s death and was reported to be shocked at the callousness of some of the paparazzi who set up the chase into the Paris tunnel that killed her, and photographed her as she lay dying.
William is completely aware of the harm these people can cause while ruthlessly pursuing their blinkered self-interest. The Holy Grail for them is the big picture that sells around the world and becomes iconic for years, netting hundreds of thousands, even millions, in revenues.
Now he sees his long-term girlfriend, Kate Middleton, on the receiving end of the same treatment. What can he do about it?
Kate Middleton
Kate, like most of us, is aware of the Diana story, but is too young to remember its fairy tale beginnings. From her pre-teen years, she will recall Diana as a rather sad figure, separated, then divorced, from the Prince of Wales. She will certainly know all about her chaotic final years and vividly remember the shock of her tragic death.
Kate will not want to go down the same route. Being a sensible sort she’ll recognize that the choice is hers. How she handles the situation will be crucial to her future. Displays of rebellion and very public mood swings are not part of her nature, so she’s not going to be another Diana.
However, it must by now have occurred to her that the longer the pre-engagement period is dragged out, especially with media interest at boiling point, the more foolish and pathetic her role is going to look. Nothing destroys a reputation quicker than a loyal partner spurned, especially by apparent indifference.
We know William cares deeply about the treatment she is receiving from the media. But if, as is certain, he knows his own mind now, he should act and act quickly to regularize Kate’s status.
The longer this hiatus goes on, the more he’s looking like a ditherer and one who doesn’t give a damn. If he’s not careful, Kate will take on the air of victimhood that hung about his mother all her life. That doesn’t suit her personality.
The current situation is developing like the plot of a formula novel — almost along archetypal lines — as people fill in the gaps with what they know, i.e. with the Diana story. Every comparison between Diana and Kate should send shudders down William’s spine. It needn’t be like that.
Prince William needs to make his — and Kate’s — story radically different, by deliberately driving it down unfamiliar paths. The Royal “fairytale” that dogged his mother, should be rewritten.
The Engagement
The engagement really needs to be announced soon to avoid Kate looking isolated and Diana-ish. She should be taken into the Royal Family immediately and seen to be one of them from the start. Protocol should not get in the way of her full public acceptance.
I believe William knows this, but may be having difficulties with some of the more crusty, senior courtiers. Their views should be set aside and Kate given priority over all of them.
The Queen has already played her part by inviting Kate to Christmas at Sandringham and by lunching and riding with her at Windsor. HM also signalled her approval at an early stage.
A further factor that may be affecting William is the political situation. Politicians love to bask in the reflected glory of big Royal occasions, as Tony Blair’s attempt to hijack the Queen Mother’s funeral indicates. Much is happening in British politics right now, including Blair’s long-awaited resignation in the spring and his replacement by the Scottishly-challenged Gordon Brown.
Brown is facing Parliamentary elections in Scotland on May 1st, which could give a majority to the Scottish National party on a ticket of independence for Scotland. He may want to influence the timing of a Royal wedding or engagement announcement to coincide with the polls. A touchy-feely Royal romance played out during the election runup would surely dampen down the SNP threat, he may reckon. Blair would certainly have thought of that, and may already be at work behind the scenes.
If Scotland votes for independence, Brown’s tenure at 10 Downing Street will look increasing awkward for a Scot with a Scottish constituency. England is 85 percent of the Union and will not want a Scottish Prime Minister in the face of a clamour for independence north of the border.
So all this is likely to be reverberating in Whitehall and Palace circles and may be staying William’s hand. He will be receiving conflicting advice from different quarters.
The Wedding
Prince William should act now in Kate’s and his own interests, and announce their engagement without further delay. A wedding date should be set as early in the year as is possible, politely putting aside political pressures. Westminster Abbey is the venue of choice. No eerily-familiar journey to St Pauls.
He should put Kate first, without any other consideration, or the fallout could come back on him with a vengeance.
Prince William is not his father’s clone. The making of King William must begin now with decisive actions in securing his bride, the future Queen Catherine.