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Zara Phillips Queen of the curtsey

In an interview with Majesty magazine, Zara Phillips reveals she curtseys every time she meets her grandmother, Queen Elizabeth II.

Zara Phillips and the Queen
Zara collecting her MBE from the Queen in 2006.

“The thing with my grandmother is she is still my grandmother and she’s very approachable, but she’s also from an era where that was how it was done. But there aren’t many people who know how it’s done. I know because I have grown up with it.”

Like many aspects of British life, which traditionally operates on convention rather than prescriptive law, there are disputes and misunderstandings about the proper way to address the Queen and other members of the Royal Family.

Jo Bryant, an etiquette advisor for Debrett’s says a curtsey for a woman and a bow for a man is still the correct way to greet the Queen. The delightful Zara clearly agrees.

However, Joe Little of Majesty magazine says, “Things are quite a bit more relaxed these days. At one time it was the ‘done thing’ whereas nowadays it is really left to individual discretion.”

The wife of the present Prime Minister, Sarah Brown, reversed the practice of her predecessor — rebel with many causes, Cherie Blair — when she was pointedly seen to curtsey to the Duchess of Cornwall at an international conference.

Men are lucky — bowing is the easy part. The curtsey is the more tricky manoeuvre. Some older women have been known to topple over completely. It really does need some practice.

Method: Put the right foot behind the left foot. Bend the knees maintaining a straight back. It’s probably easier with a loose skirt or gown than a in tight mini.

To see how it’s done by experts, actresses in TV costume dramas are always impeccable. In the BBC’s Wives and Daughters, by Mrs Gaskell, set in Victorian times, the two younger women give deep curtseys to every older person they meet. It’s difficult to imagine modern youngsters having that sort of respect for their elders.

Another great exponent of the curstey is the Welsh opera diva, Katherine Jenkins, who almost sat on the stage with her spectacularly low, slow curtsey to the Queen at the Remembrance concert in the Royal Albert Hall.

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The Queen and Katherine Jenkins

Katherine Jenkins The delectable Katherine Jenkins, the Welsh mezzo-soprano opera singer, has just published her autobiography Time To Say Hello.

In the book she describes her involvement with the Royal Family. Here are a few passages from it :

Thanks to my career, I have had more than my fair share of right Royal days.

The first time I met the Duke of Edinburgh he said: “Oh, yes, I think I’ve seen you singing at the rugby.”

Then, as I smiled nervously, he added: “How are your vocal cords?”

“Oh, fine, thank you,” I said breathlessly.

“No boils or warts on them yet?”

I was absolutely horrified and said: “I hope not.”

“Jolly good,” the Duke said, sauntering away.

The first time I went to Buckingham Palace was on St David’s Day.

When I arrived, my eyes as big as saucers, I was directed to the cloakrooms and told: “When you are ready, please come back upstairs and we will tell you where to go.” [...]

Suddenly aware that time was passing, I went back upstairs. “I’m Katherine Jenkins,” I said to the nearest official. His eyebrows shot up.

“We are going to have to rush,” he said, a note of panic in his voice.

“You are the last to arrive and the Queen is literally about to walk into the room.”

Somewhat flushed and out of breath, I joined everybody else in the line-up just in time. I was next to the opera singer Bryn Terfel.

When the Queen entered, I heard her ask him: “Did you enjoy the opening of the New Millennium Centre in Wales?”

“Very much, Ma’am,” Bryn replied. “Did you?”

“I thought it was lovely,” the Queen answered, “but it did go on a bit. My train was waiting for me for over an hour.”

I have become involved with the Duke of Edinburgh Awards and, on their 50th anniversary, I was invited to lunch with the Queen and the Duke.

The eight guests were getting to know each other when the corgis came padding into the room. I love dogs, so I just fell on to the floor and was playing and rolling around with them when the Queen walked in, giving me a close-up view of her feet.

“Oh, my God!” I said, scrambling up, covered in confusion. She just smiled gently and said: “Hello Katherine, how are you?”

“Very excited to be here,” I burbled, “and I love your dogs.”

“Are they pure bred?” the lady next to me asked.

“Well, actually, no,” the Queen said.

“They’re a cross between a corgi and dachshund. I call them the Dawgis.”

When we had finished the three courses of lunch, a plate with some gauze on top of it and a glass bowl full of water were placed in front of me. I was so embarrassed: I hadn’t a clue what they were for.

A waiter came round with a choice of grapes or peaches, so I chose a peach and just sat there holding it.

The Queen had sensed my panic. With an expression in her eyes that said, “Watch me”, she very discreetly showed me what to do: wash the fruit in the bowl, then dry it with the gauze. Bless her.

As I gratefully copied her, I couldn’t help thinking, surely the fruit has already been washed?

I met the Duchess of Cornwall at the 2007 Classical Brit Awards. She was absolutely delightful and asked me if I spoke Welsh, which I do.

“My husband speaks a little Welsh,” she added, obviously proud of Charles, “and I’m always very impressed when he sings the Welsh national anthem in Welsh. I’d love to learn the words of that.”

“Well,” I said, “if you ever need some lessons I will gladly teach you.”

‘I might need some singing lessons before that,’ she laughed.

Time To Say Hello by Katherine Jenkins is published by Orion on January 28 at £18.99 in the UK.

More extracts can be found in The Mail on Sunday

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